The 4 Big Lies We Tell Parents
The 4 Big Lies We Tell Parents - Sleep training - 16:20 - Repression is a great defense in the last years of life time before you're basically forget & get amnesia - 20:00 - Fathers regulate excitement, aggression & impulsivity - 25:30 - In America, parents are spending about 90 minutes a day with their children - 33:35 - Don't be rigid about when they go to sleep (giving them time) - 37:55 - Disconnection of mom with their kids - 45:00 - Attachment disorder - 45:15 - Passed down generationally not genetically. - Mother who struggled with attachment, deeply connecting, dependency (Past history). - Passed down to generation with pathological defenses. - Coping mechanisms: 1. Avoidant attachment disorder leads to depression & loneliness. 2. Ambivalent attachment disorder (Clingy to mom). 3. Disorganized attachment disorder (Baby without a strategy). - Avoidant & Ambivalent attachment disorder are strategies - 46:50 - Coping mechanism is not getting ...